A post from my former blog 10 years ago about divorce.

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https://singaporeexpathousewife.blogspot.com/2015/10/divorce.html And that's how I feel about it. I'm mentally OUT and have disassociated myself. My parents and kids are supportive because they have seen the mental, emotional and financial abuse. My friends are supportive. That's all I need. Until both my kids are 18, I have lawyers in all countries on standby.

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